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The talk of the town

by Kelly Lafferty
Once a month, some members of the Vine Grove High School class of 1956 get together to play card games. Playing a card game called Golf are, from left, Vonnie Lou Keltner, Betty Rose Jones, Thelma Willow and Elizabeth Ann Whelan. "Just wait 'til we're a hundred years old," Thelma said. "We're still gonna be playing this."

When Thelma Willow makes the rounds to All Of Us, a Vine Grove restaurant that is one of her regular hangouts, eating isn’t necessarily her priority.

She greets cooks, waiters, owners and friends, stopping to ask “What’s up, girl” or “How are you, girl?”

“Every place I go I see somebody I know. … You gotta keep active and keep busy,” the Vine Grove resident said. “If I just stayed at home I’d wilt away.”

Thelma, 74, was born and raised in the Hardin County hamlet, and she seemingly knows most everybody that lives there.

She’s president of the Vine Grove High School class of 1956, and she schedules get-togethers and reunions with her classmates. Thelma points at each person’s picture in her senior class yearbook and discusses his or her current state. She knows where they live or if they’ve died.

She knows all of it.

“It’s easy to remember,” Thelma said. “There’s 56 people in our graduating class, and I graduated in 1956.”

She checks her Facebook account several times each day from the desktop computer in her bedroom. Thelma has more than 100 Facebook friends, ranging from her family, high school classmates and students at North Hardin High School, where she taught English as a Second Language.

“I’m on Facebook every day seein’ what everybody’s doin’,” Thelma said. “I’m nosy.”

Though Thelma’s days slow down, the action doesn’t stop. She relaxes with family and her two dogs, Petie and Annaleese. Then she picks up the phone, ready to plan the next busy day.

Thelma Willow says goodbye to her friend Janice Jenkins after lunch in Vine Grove. "I'm a huggin' person," Thelma said.
After bringing Thelma Willow a burger to go, Jason Thompson, waiter at "All of Us" family restaurant in Vine Grove, stops to chat before she leaves for home.
Thelma Willow, 74, spends many days driving to visit friends in her hometown of Vine Grove.
Thelma Willow gets a check-up from Dr. R.B. Faulkner every few months. Faulkner is Thelma's close family friend, and she has known him for many years.
"See, he calls me honey. We're buddies," said Thelma Henderson Willow, 74, of Vine Grove. Dr. R.B. Faulkner gave her a quick kiss before she left his office after her check-up. Faulkner has been her doctor for almost 25 years, and she considers him a good friend.
"This is too slow for me," Thelma Willow says as she searches for books on which to put labels. Thelma volunteered at St. Brigid Catholic Church in Vine Grove to help in its library. "I like fast-paced things," she said.
All of Us, a small family restaurant in Vine Grove, is a frequent lunch stop for Thelma Willow. Thelma greets Tina Raines Clark, owner of the restaurant. "Every place I go, I see somebody I know," Thelma said.
"I wanna stay as young as I can for as long as I can," Thelma Willow said. Thelma's days are always busy, visiting friends and family and going to her regular hangout spots.
Thelma Willow relaxes in her home while preparing for a nap with her dogs Annaleese and Petie.

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